Living with a life changing illness does not rob us if we exchange the quality of one thing we value with another that works better now that change has come. It is the accepting that is the difficult dance step to learn. How much to accept, how much to fight? Or rather which to accept and which to fight?
Adapting to change isn't what's hard.
It's living through the experimenting and choosing which change we are best suited to that is the real climb.
This is good! For me, the changes were to come and see not everyone is perfect, perhaps my ideal is something else, or something other than I'd been fixating on. And is it prudent for me to expect that person to change or adjust himself for me? Is that unconditional love?
ReplyDeleteTogether, we learn ways to work out our negotiations... And how good this is! For life is a negotiation, every day.
Just getting out of bed and putting your feet down on the floor is enough to piss-off the Devil; yeah! ; ) That's Life.